spideyjlaw:

oka ima start crying but hear me out ,, look at the way seb grabs the fans arm, in a way to keep her steady. i think this is extremely sweet of him to do so. sometimes you will see fan pics and they are blurry bc the fan is really nervous or its rushed bc u kno they just met their fav. but this man right here doesnt want his fans to have a blurry shakey pic bc he cares and he takes his time to make people feel calm, steady & loved because this man loves his fans 

THIS IS WHY I LOVE HIM SO MUCH DO U HEAR ME 
THANKS FOR COMING TO MY TED TALK

(cred: X)

Why should your boyfriend cook?

Okay, so I don’t say he should cook all the time no matter what, he has to be Jamie Oliver itself. Not at all. I love cooking and I love preparing food for myself, for my friends and loved ones, so I definitely don’t say men should do it. I say he should be able to make an omlett, some other egg dish, a pasta or rice, cut some meat, to make it easier for you. It is not a big deal, it is like 10-20 minutes he can do that totally. But it makes a huge difference for you. 

A night for my mom, because my dad can’t make any food:
They get home 8:30 pm, they are hungry, so my mom starts to make food asap. A quick omlett with vegies. It takes her 20 mins, however she was at training, she is still in her training clothes and really just wants to take a shower a quickly wash her hair, put on some lotion, but this would take up 15 mins at least, and they are hungry so she has to make food first. When it is ready, and they ate, my dad cleans the table and do the dish my mom used to make the omlett. It is 9:30 pm now, and my mom is very tired, so she skips washing her hair and the lotion too. She doesn’t feel good in her skin, because she couldn’t take care of herself in a way she wanted. She goes to bed with this feeling. 

My bf knows how to cook. So, when we get home and I was training, it’s 8:30 pm. He offers to start to make an omlett for dinner, so I can quickly go and have a shower and wash my hair. It takes 15 minutes for me, so he sends some mails, and starts to make the omlett. When I am finished, I make the table and cut some vegies, and if my bf feels very creative I can even shave my legs quickly. So, at 9:30 pm we have ate, I have had a shower and washed my hair, I feel nice and clean. It is only 15 minutes what my bf takes from me in the kitchen yet it makes a huge difference in the way I feel at the end of the day. I do the same for him, if he was training I start the dinner while he has a shower. 

So it doesn’t need to be a big thing. A little 15 mins help in the kitchen can make huge differences. This is why I think a boyfriend need to know how too cook some basic dishes.