I bought a bra. I know huge story. BUT! It something different now. I have quite small tits, which I feel ashamed of, and doesn’t feel very girly abut them, and always feel like a boy, so I started to wear push-up bras against every knowledge I have about how harmful they can be. I was wearing them for years, at least 4. At home of course I wore a sport bra or nothing, trying to compensate the harm I was doing my body to feel pretty and confident. I tried several non push-up ones and they all looked terrible on me. So, I decided to go on whit one specific type, which I felt good in and confident. On Saturday I went to a mall and did some shoping and I wanted to by a bra, something sexy, to surprise my bf, and to have a new bra. I tried at least 10 types, and during the process I realised how my breast got deformed a bit, how it looked entirely different than before. Before I wore my bras for 3-5 hours a day, or maybe onde for 8 as I spent limited amount of time at school. Now I am working so I wear them for 8-10 hours. So, my tits appart from being small they are on the side more than they should be in my opinion, and now they were looking weird in a bad way too. So, i decided to buy a bra without any padding and any kind of a stuff which forces my tits in a different way as they should be. I bought one at the end without anything, it’s a cute cozy, very simple one. I asked my bf opinion about it, and his face was priceless first, it was like, OMG, what is this? It’s terrible. But all he said was that it is different from the ones I already have. True. At home I felt quite insecure about putting it on, and I spent a lot of time around the mirror, to get familiar with the new look I had, with considerably smaller tits. My bf noticed, and he come around and hugged me and didn’t really said anything, just kissed my breasts around. After it the made a note to himself, that he can feel my tits  lot better in this bra then the previous one, due to the lack of padding, so he liked it. After me still being insecure, he come around, and said, he thinks it’s nice, and he loves my tits anyway, also he knows that it is healthier for me to wear this, and he is happy with that, and happy with the fact I wear something comfortable and nice, good to me in a long term. I am really happy about it, and feel really blessed by having a bf like him. However I am still insecure about this whole going out and going to work like this.